How to deal with nasty people

Having had a narcisstic mother, it is hard sometimes to wrap my mind around nasty people.

The video above came on my YouTube feed today.

The more I think about it,  it might be the best way to ever engage a narcissitic person, see the beauty in them (as minuscule as it is) and engage at the 4 year old level they are.

They can't understand grown up concepts like respect.

They will never understand the hurt they have caused.

Someone that released me from anger today.

Maybe that is the answer, as there is nothing else that works.